So today is going to be a post that I think that everybody has kind of been waiting for, especially after I posted the article, How I got into BDSM, and that is about my own Daddy Dom Little Girl dynamic!
Talking about my own Daddy Dom Little Girl dynamic is a challenge in itself. You know, up until this point on the blog, I have really just been making educational content about the lifestyle in general, not really making many posts about my own lifestyle directly. Other than my How I Got into BDSM article, what I write about myself is pretty much just for the purpose of education. Something I hope to change.
Writing this is really hard for me and talking about it even more so frightening because I am literally putting myself into a public eye at this point. For most of us in Daddy Dom Little Girl, we know how negative the vanilla, and even sometimes the BDSM community takes our lifestyle. There are so many negative connotations with the way that we choose to live our dynamics and it’s terrifying to think that somebody who knows me is going to find this post.
But the thing is that I can’t be scared because life is too short. And if someone in my life were to find this and suddenly feel like they couldn’t be in my life anymore I could understand why. I would try to get them to understand, but ultimately if they can’t then so be it. That being said, I don’t feel like this lifestyle will really come as a shock to many people in my life if they ever found this just because of how I have always been.
So yeah I guess the warning for this post is that this is a post about my lifestyle. If you don’t like it, if you don’t agree with it, if you have something nasty that you want to say, please don’t at all. This blog is meant to be educational about Daddy Dom Little Girl, and be a place that people can come to and realize that they are not alone. That every dynamic is different and just because some of us don’t fit the specific molds that others do, that it is still okay. So if you guys want to discuss my lifestyle that’s perfectly fine please leave a comment below, but if you don’t want to discuss and you just want to attack then please just move forward because there are better things that are more productive to do with your time.
So, you’re here to learn the keys and secrets to punishments in DDLG, are you? Well….say no more!
I was going to open up this weeks post with one about non-sexual punishments, but, I realized that putting those out before even talking about punishments in the first place? No bueno. No bueno at all. So, that’s what we’re going to talk about today. The secrets to using punishment in DDLG, and honestly any BDSM relationship! I know you’re here to hear the secrets, those whispers on the walls bouncing around and I am very excited to share my input with you guys!
Warning: As usual, I have a disclaimer. The words you’re about to read are based off of my experiences and knowledge from research. I understand what I suggest may not work for everyone, but that it may. Please, if you’re going to comment, discuss, don’t argue! Share your experiences and wisdom, but don’t put down others for different or lacking thoughts.
Hi again, Sparkles! It’s me, Kitty. Today I wanted to work on a series of posts for a DDLG 101! I see a lot of new people asking questions about jumping into the lifestyle, and I want to educate! Please know that anything in my DDLG 101 series, like anything else written here, is my own opinion and while many of us who make this type of content may agree on some things, it can be different for everyone!!!
Warning: This post is my own DDLG 101, and it is full of my opinions! I know that not everyone will agree with me, and that’s okay because every dynamic is different. However, let’s try to stay respectful of one another! If you comment please try to discuss, not attack! Also, please remember that I use Daddy Dom as just a term, but that this is for EVERY caregiver we have, Mommy and Daddies a like!
I can’t believe I am writing this post, but it is so rampant in the community right now that I feel like it has to be addressed. I am a part of a few DDLG groups where the number of posts about being “ripped out of little space” by seeing adult content is just…growing. These are posts created in 18+ NSFW DDLG groups. We need to talk about this.
Warning: This post is just about my opinions and they may come off strongly. I know that not everyone will agree with me, and that’s okay. However, let’s try to stay respectful of one another! If you comment please try to discuss, not attack!
Lately, in a lot of the DDLG groups that I am in on Facebook, Fet, Tumblr, Kik, etc. I’ve been seeing an increasing pattern of behavior that worries me, a lot. From people making posts that are about being
I feel that most people can agree there is a certain level of safety that you should be harnessing when you are in the vetting process.
Hi everyone! It’s Kitty again! Today is part two of DDLG From A Distance! If you haven’t read my first post, go ahead and clickyclicky so you can see some ideas of things you can do with your caregiver even from a distance!
Today, we’re going to talk about being in a little headspace and putting pieces of DDLG into the relationship. Please note: These are things that are my own opinion and experience. Every relationship’s dynamic is different and there’s no set rule-book to how DDLG should be. Keep your sparkles and manners up, and negative comments down, let us get started!
Hey guys! Kitten here with a big announcement! I’ve decided to take In My Little Space in a new-ish direction! I moved the shop today from the .com to Etsy! I know a lot of people felt like Etsy is a much safer place for people to spend money and do things of that nature, so I wanted to make sure that I took your guys’ feelings into consideration.
Anyone who knows me knows that Spooky season is my favorite season. Cool nights, hot tea or cocoa, pumpkin spice…
I love it so much.
Fall is easily one of my favorite seasons. I miss Texas’ fall. Its mild, then cold at night and that is the best time. Where you can have Daddy start a fire in the fire pit, grab a blanket and just sit together. Ahh… So relaxing!
To celebrate my favorite season I am going to do my first-but-what-will-be-annual, Spooktacular Giveaway!
Note: This giveaway runs strictly on my website. It is not affiliated with any social media company I post it on, and all items are coming out of my own pocket.
So. Let’s talk about it!
Hey guys, it’s Kitten! Today we’re going to go over something I hold very close to in my heart and that is long distance DDLG. Now, I can only speak about what works for me in my personal dynamic, and my own thoughts and feelings. There is no rule book when it comes to any relationship as each one is different and each of us in the lifestyle does things with a little twist. What I enjoy and what works for us, might not be for you. With that in mind, let’s keep the sparkles and manners up and the negative comments down!