So, you’re here to learn the keys and secrets to punishments in DDLG, are you? Well….say no more!
I was going to open up this weeks post with one about non-sexual punishments, but, I realized that putting those out before even talking about punishments in the first place? No bueno. No bueno at all. So, that’s what we’re going to talk about today. The secrets to using punishment in DDLG, and honestly any BDSM relationship! I know you’re here to hear the secrets, those whispers on the walls bouncing around and I am very excited to share my input with you guys!
Warning: As usual, I have a disclaimer. The words you’re about to read are based off of my experiences and knowledge from research. I understand what I suggest may not work for everyone, but that it may. Please, if you’re going to comment, discuss, don’t argue! Share your experiences and wisdom, but don’t put down others for different or lacking thoughts.
When do you expect your daddies to reply? I sometimes don’t get a reply for days and I haven’t heard anything off my daddy for a day now and it’s killing me but I love him so I deal with it 😬😫💛
I found this question on Facebook being asked to a group of us, and it honestly made me pretty sad. I see so many variances of this question right here on my newsfeed every single day, and it really alludes to a huge problem in the DDLG community. It is one that I struggle with myself, and one that I think a lot of people need to work hard at getting better at, and that is communication.
Warning: This post is just about my opinions, and my own thoughts. Not everyone is going to agree and I understand, and if you don’t? Let’s conversate, not attack!
Hi again, Sparkles! It’s me, Kitty. Today I wanted to work on a series of posts for a DDLG 101! I see a lot of new people asking questions about jumping into the lifestyle, and I want to educate! Please know that anything in my DDLG 101 series, like anything else written here, is my own opinion and while many of us who make this type of content may agree on some things, it can be different for everyone!!!
Warning: This post is my own DDLG 101, and it is full of my opinions! I know that not everyone will agree with me, and that’s okay because every dynamic is different. However, let’s try to stay respectful of one another! If you comment please try to discuss, not attack! Also, please remember that I use Daddy Dom as just a term, but that this is for EVERY caregiver we have, Mommy and Daddies a like!
Lately, in a lot of the DDLG groups that I am in on Facebook, Fet, Tumblr, Kik, etc. I’ve been seeing an increasing pattern of behavior that worries me, a lot. From people making posts that are about being
I feel that most people can agree there is a certain level of safety that you should be harnessing when you are in the vetting process.
Hi everyone! It’s Kitty again! Today is part two of DDLG From A Distance! If you haven’t read my first post, go ahead and clickyclicky so you can see some ideas of things you can do with your caregiver even from a distance!
Today, we’re going to talk about being in a little headspace and putting pieces of DDLG into the relationship. Please note: These are things that are my own opinion and experience. Every relationship’s dynamic is different and there’s no set rule-book to how DDLG should be. Keep your sparkles and manners up, and negative comments down, let us get started!
Hey guys, it’s Kitten! Today we’re going to go over something I hold very close to in my heart and that is long distance DDLG. Now, I can only speak about what works for me in my personal dynamic, and my own thoughts and feelings. There is no rule book when it comes to any relationship as each one is different and each of us in the lifestyle does things with a little twist. What I enjoy and what works for us, might not be for you. With that in mind, let’s keep the sparkles and manners up and the negative comments down!