The number one thing I try to preach about DDLG is that not everyone’s dynamic is the same. That there is no exact rulebook on how to live the Daddy Dom Little Girl lifestyle because certain aspects are not for everyone. I wrote a blog post about Fitting the Mold of Little Space, where I talked about how not everyone fits the “ideal mold” of what people think little space is about. From pacis to onesies and more. Today, we’re going to get a little bit more into that with a list of alternative names for your Daddy Doms! (Yes, we will be doing a special post for Mommy Doms too!)
If you have suggestions, leave them in a comment below!!
Something I’ve seen a lot around the community over time, is that when someone doesn’t call their Daddy Dom, Daddy, it makes people get a little weird. It’s like some people can’t handle or understand the idea of not calling someone that name. “But isn’t Daddy in the title, Daddy Dom?” Yes. Yes it is. You’re 100% correct about that, however, that’s just a title of a category. A Daddy Dom is someone who is a softer dom. Someone who is nuturing and guiding. Typically, they do not have as heavy a hand as a Master.
The keyword there: nurturing.
Not everyone has a traditional DDLG relationship where everyone is called Babygirl and Daddy. Not everyone fits the mold of being comfortable with those terms, especially Daddy. Whether its past trauma or just general ickiness with the word Daddy as a title for your significant you call your partner what you are comfortable with, period. So what I did was I scoured the internet, I asked around, and I did some research on some suggested titles that you guys use instead of Daddy!
- Papa Bear
- Teddy Bear
- Mr. (Last name)
- My Heart
Do you have a name for your Daddy that isn’t on the list? Share it below!!!